KEN BEDENE explains departure from ABORTED: “I wanted to create separation”
Ken Bedene, the former drummer of Aborted, recently made a public statement addressing his departure from the band after abruptly parting ways. Aborted announced Bedene’s departure, noting that he was immediately replaced by former Benighted drummer Kévin Paradis. Following this announcement, Bedene decided to speak out and clarify the circumstances surrounding his exit.
Bedene revealed that he was involved in a consensual and reciprocated online conversation with an individual of consenting age in her state. He mentioned that he and his wife have an open relationship, and he felt it was necessary to leave Aborted to prevent the band from receiving any more negative attention. In his statement, Bedene expressed regret for his actions, acknowledging that the online conversation, while legal, should not have taken place.
Reflecting on the situation, Bedene emphasized that he has always respected others and taken consent seriously, stating that he never intended to make anyone uncomfortable. He expressed horror at the false claims circulating about the conversation and his character but chose not to share his side of the story to avoid perpetuating the situation. Bedene expressed deep regret for the impact his actions had on his family, particularly his wife, who faced unwarranted attention as a result of his behavior.
Taking full responsibility for the consequences of his actions, Bedene emphasized that his departure from Aborted was aimed at protecting the band and the community he had been a part of for over 15 years. He clarified that the band had no involvement in his online communications and should not be held accountable for them. Moving forward, Bedene stated that he would take a step back to focus on his family’s healing and personal reflection.
Bedene’s departure from Aborted is a poignant moment for the band and its fans, as it signifies the end of a longstanding collaboration. Despite the circumstances surrounding his exit, Bedene’s decision to step down underscores his commitment to accountability and ethical conduct. As he takes time to reflect and address the repercussions of his actions, Bedene’s departure serves as a reminder of the impact of maintaining respect, transparency, and responsibility in personal and professional relationships.