Beartooth frontman reveals he is gay: a look inside his life and marriage
Caleb Shomo, the lead singer of Beartooth, recently made a significant announcement about his personal life, revealing that he is a proud gay man following the end of his nearly 14-year marriage to wife Fleur Shomo. This revelation came after speculation arose due to his appearance in the music video for his song, Free, where he embraced a more gender-fluid look. The video prompted homophobic comments online, including from Attila frontman Chris Fronzak, who later deleted his remarks and offered an apology.
Caleb’s wife, Fleur, publicly expressed her support for him in an Instagram post that featured a video of the couple dancing together. As Caleb embarks on this new chapter in his life, it’s worth exploring his history with addiction, his marriage, and his career with Beartooth.
Caleb formed Beartooth in 2012 as an experimental side project while he was part of another band, Attack Attack. His journey with Attack Attack began in the mid-00s when he joined the metalcore group as a teenager, eventually becoming the lead vocalist. After spending a decade with Attack Attack, Caleb decided to leave, citing mental health reasons as a significant factor in his departure, ultimately leading to the band’s disbandment upon his exit. He had already started working on music for Beartooth before his departure from his former band, signing with Red Bull Records in 2012 and releasing their debut EP, Sick, the following year. Since then, Beartooth has released five studio albums, with their latest full record receiving widespread critical acclaim in 2023.
Caleb’s music often delves into themes of addiction, depression, and self-image struggles. In a 2023 interview, he explained that his lyrics reflect his personal experiences and the desire to lead a healthier life mentally and emotionally. His candid approach to songwriting resonates with fans, offering a glimpse into his innermost thoughts and emotions.
In 2012, the same year he founded Beartooth, Caleb married Fleur, an actress and podcast host. Fleur has shared aspects of her professional life on social media, including her role in the medical drama The Pitt. She also hosted a podcast called My Top 5 from 2019 to 2022, showcasing her creative talents. In December, Fleur celebrated her 13th wedding anniversary with Caleb, expressing her enduring love and admiration for him.
Following Caleb’s public declaration about his sexual orientation, Fleur shared her own sentiments, acknowledging the challenges they have faced together and the impact on her mental health during this difficult period. She emphasized the complexities of supporting a loved one through a life-changing moment while also grappling with personal turmoil. Despite the trials they have endured, Fleur acknowledged the depth of their relationship and the profound impact it has had on her life.
As Caleb moves forward with his newfound truth, supported by Fleur and his community, his story serves as a testament to the power of self-discovery and authenticity. With a successful music career and a resilient spirit, Caleb continues to inspire others with his music and his journey as a proud gay man.