Bethenny Frankel finds it challenging to date men in their 50s: ‘They want pen pals’

Bethenny Frankel has recently expressed her frustration with dating men in their fifties, claiming that they are only interested in finding an “adult pen pal” willing to sleep with them.

In a social media video, the former “Real Housewives of New York” star, 54, shared her candid thoughts on the dating scene for men in their fifties. According to Frankel, this age group is the most challenging to navigate because they tend to breadcrumb and are not looking for meaningful connections.

“These men are so preoccupied with their careers, sports cars, money, ex-wives, and kids,” Frankel noted while wearing oversized green sunglasses. She explained that men in their fifties are busy and seeking companionship, but are not interested in forming genuine bonds due to their focus on other aspects of life.

Moreover, Frankel highlighted that men in their fifties often lack the skills necessary for emotional connection since they have not had to handle domestic matters traditionally taken care of by women. This disconnect leads to a preference for superficial interactions rather than meaningful communication.

The reality star recounted her personal experiences with men reaching out to her, claiming to be deeply interested, only to disappear when faced with genuine responses. Frankel stated that these men were essentially seeking adult pen pals with whom they could potentially engage in physical relationships, highlighting the superficial nature of their intentions.

Frankel emphasized her frustration with this communication style, revealing an instance where she firmly responded to a man utilizing a breadcrumb approach. She concluded that this style was ineffective for her and encouraged genuine communication or disengagement when necessary.

Throughout the video, Frankel displayed a summer-ready look, sporting a colorful crop top over a turquoise halter bikini top, while addressing the topic of dating men in their fifties. The post generated a significant response from fans, many of whom shared similar sentiments and experiences when dealing with men in this age group.

Fans took to the comments section to express their agreement with Frankel’s observations and shared their own advice and stories. Some followers suggested considering relationships with younger men, while others humorously recommended exploring connections with older partners, citing positive experiences with more seasoned individuals.

Frankel, who was previously married to Peter Sussman and Jason Hoppy, continues to navigate the dating scene and was most recently linked to Tom Villante. The mother of one remains candid about her experiences, offering valuable insights into the complexities of dating men in their fifties and the challenges of establishing genuine connections in this age group.